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	<title>Comments on: Episode 9: How Do You Really Raise Self-Esteem? The Incredibles vs. American Idol</title>
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		<title>By: Ruth</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-2417</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 05:21:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh that&#039;s really cool! Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh that&#8217;s really cool! Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-2416</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 00:42:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ruth, Thanks so much for your comment!  I&#039;m glad you found the podcast.  There are lots of good interviews with authors of parenting and childcare books here on The Psych Files.  You can find them if you click on Developmental in the left navigation area.  Thanks again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ruth, Thanks so much for your comment!  I&#8217;m glad you found the podcast.  There are lots of good interviews with authors of parenting and childcare books here on The Psych Files.  You can find them if you click on Developmental in the left navigation area.  Thanks again.</p>
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		<title>By: Ruth</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-2415</link>
		<dc:creator>Ruth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2010 23:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi. I am taking a psychology class this term and my teacher suggested your podcasts and things from your site to better our learning experience. 
What I found interesting about this particular podcast was how to raise self-esteem in yourself and other people. I work at a day care, and this information from your podcast could really help me raise the self-esteem of the preschoolers I work with. Thanks for this!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi. I am taking a psychology class this term and my teacher suggested your podcasts and things from your site to better our learning experience.<br />
What I found interesting about this particular podcast was how to raise self-esteem in yourself and other people. I work at a day care, and this information from your podcast could really help me raise the self-esteem of the preschoolers I work with. Thanks for this!</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-1646</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 10:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dee: Glad you liked the episode.  Thanks.  You might want to read the article that Douglas linked to in the previous comment.  Also good stuff on authentic self-esteem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dee: Glad you liked the episode.  Thanks.  You might want to read the article that Douglas linked to in the previous comment.  Also good stuff on authentic self-esteem.</p>
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		<title>By: Dee</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-1643</link>
		<dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 02:58:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This podcast was actually very eye opening.
Thank you for these!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This podcast was actually very eye opening.<br />
Thank you for these!</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-948</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 02:24:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent article Douglas.  Thanks for linking to it.  I agree with Ms. Mika completely on the issue of authentic self-esteem.  Well worth reading.  Michael</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent article Douglas.  Thanks for linking to it.  I agree with Ms. Mika completely on the issue of authentic self-esteem.  Well worth reading.  Michael</p>
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		<title>By: Douglas Eby</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-936</link>
		<dc:creator>Douglas Eby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:01:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In her article &lt;a href=&quot;http://talentdevelop.com/articles/WhatIsWrongWFG.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What Is Wrong With Feeling Good?&lt;/a&gt;, gifted children consultant Elizabeth Mika notes, &quot;Self-esteem needs to be based on your authentic feelings and actions. If who you are and how you behave is way off from who you would like to be (and you are perceptive enough to notice the difference), your self-esteem will undoubtedly &#039;suffer.&#039; But there is a message there letting you know that some extra ­ or perhaps a different sort of effort is required on your part.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In her article <a href="http://talentdevelop.com/articles/WhatIsWrongWFG.html" rel="nofollow">What Is Wrong With Feeling Good?</a>, gifted children consultant Elizabeth Mika notes, &#8220;Self-esteem needs to be based on your authentic feelings and actions. If who you are and how you behave is way off from who you would like to be (and you are perceptive enough to notice the difference), your self-esteem will undoubtedly &#8216;suffer.&#8217; But there is a message there letting you know that some extra ­ or perhaps a different sort of effort is required on your part.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-916</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 12:57:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting idea - doing a podcast on this topic.  I can certainly identify with frustration about comments like, &quot;You&#039;re so talented&quot;.  I&#039;ve spent many years and lots of money in singing lessons and while I appreciate positive feedback, the comment does in a way disregard the many hours spent we&#039;ve spent in practice.    I want to do more episodes related to creativity and artistic endeavors.  I&#039;ll look into this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting idea &#8211; doing a podcast on this topic.  I can certainly identify with frustration about comments like, &#8220;You&#8217;re so talented&#8221;.  I&#8217;ve spent many years and lots of money in singing lessons and while I appreciate positive feedback, the comment does in a way disregard the many hours spent we&#8217;ve spent in practice.    I want to do more episodes related to creativity and artistic endeavors.  I&#8217;ll look into this.</p>
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		<title>By: Mariah Raymond</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-834</link>
		<dc:creator>Mariah Raymond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 19:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Michael,

I recently discovered your podcast and have been listening to it while I paint. In episode 9, on raising self-esteem, you discuss a study conducted by Carol Dweck on methods of praising children. She states that telling students they&#039;re smart when they accomplish something significant generally &#039;backfires,&#039; while praising them by saying that they must have worked hard results in a more motivated student. As an artist, I&#039;ve often felt my stomach drop at the frequent comment &quot;you&#039;re so talented&quot; or &quot;you&#039;re so gifted.&quot; I&#039;ve realized this was because it disregarded the fact that I had worked very hard over many years to reach my current skill level and it suggested that I made each painting in relative ease (through my  supposed gift). The reality is that it is predominantly an exhausting, demanding and discouraging process. I believe the &quot;you&#039;re so talented&quot; praise may be equally paralyzing for students as the comment &quot;you&#039;re so smart,&quot; and was wondering if you&#039;d consider doing a podcast on this subject of something related to the psychological process of creating art (be it writing, music, etc). I also believe this concept of talent, while I&#039;m certain it exists, enables and encourages our country to view art as a leisure activity, rather than an essential component of a progressive culture.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Michael,</p>
<p>I recently discovered your podcast and have been listening to it while I paint. In episode 9, on raising self-esteem, you discuss a study conducted by Carol Dweck on methods of praising children. She states that telling students they&#8217;re smart when they accomplish something significant generally &#8216;backfires,&#8217; while praising them by saying that they must have worked hard results in a more motivated student. As an artist, I&#8217;ve often felt my stomach drop at the frequent comment &#8220;you&#8217;re so talented&#8221; or &#8220;you&#8217;re so gifted.&#8221; I&#8217;ve realized this was because it disregarded the fact that I had worked very hard over many years to reach my current skill level and it suggested that I made each painting in relative ease (through my  supposed gift). The reality is that it is predominantly an exhausting, demanding and discouraging process. I believe the &#8220;you&#8217;re so talented&#8221; praise may be equally paralyzing for students as the comment &#8220;you&#8217;re so smart,&#8221; and was wondering if you&#8217;d consider doing a podcast on this subject of something related to the psychological process of creating art (be it writing, music, etc). I also believe this concept of talent, while I&#8217;m certain it exists, enables and encourages our country to view art as a leisure activity, rather than an essential component of a progressive culture.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://www.thepsychfiles.com/2007/03/episode-9-how-do-you-really-raise-self-esteem/comment-page-1/#comment-618</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 10:44:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Jesse.  People do say that we have a narcissistic culture and that we want to feel good about ourselves no matter what we do.  We certainly need to learn to take constructive criticism in order to learn and grow.  Glad you&#039;re enjoying the podcast.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Jesse.  People do say that we have a narcissistic culture and that we want to feel good about ourselves no matter what we do.  We certainly need to learn to take constructive criticism in order to learn and grow.  Glad you&#8217;re enjoying the podcast.</p>
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